Relationships
In a Divorce, Who Gets Custody of the Master Bedroom?
Dear Monica, I am getting divorced after a 25 year marriage. I think my husband should move out of the master bedroom until he finds […]
Married Men Without Wedding Rings
Dear Monica, I am single and I keep meeting guys who are not wearing rings but, in fact, are married. What is the best way […]
Does Your Man Have a Wandering Eye?
Dear Monica,Whenever my husband and I go out it seems like he has a roving eye. What do you suggest to bring him around? —R.G., […]
Sex with the Lights On or Off?
Dear Monica, My girlfriend will only have sex with the lights off. I like the lights on. How can I get around this? —J.J., Wynnewood […]
Beauty Sleep or Botox? Only Her Doctor Knows for Sure
Dear Monica, I am in my late 40’s and divorced. I feel like that I am really starting to look my age (people keep saying […]
Summer Fling or Long-Term Love?
Dear Monica, During the summer I met a really cute guy. Now that the fall is coming I am not sure we are on stable […]
The Last Roll of Kodachrome
I read last month that the last roll of Kodachrome film that Kodak produced was processed in Kansas for photographer Steve McCurry. Kodak chose McCurry […]
A Proustian High School Reunion
I’m happy to report that the 40th reunion of the Class of ’70 at Amherst (N.Y.) Central High School wasn’t cheesy, sleazy or wheezy. There […]
Dating Secrets for Dudes: 7 Ways to Land (and Keep) a Hot Date
Dear Monica, I have not had great luck over the years as far as my dating history goes. I am not sure what exactly I […]
I Was a High School Rebel
I’m going to my 40th high school reunion this weekend. No wrung-out laments here about the dwindling sands of time, etc. That beach closed decades […]
In Your 30s and Still Single? It’s Your Fault
Dear Monica, People tell me that I am the total package: smart, pretty, thin, ambitious and sexy. I am in my early 30s and still […]
Is My Boyfriend Gay?
Dear Monica, I am seeing this guy who is extremely metrosexual. He is way into the latest fashion trends, listens to girly emo music and […]
Who Do You Ignore on Facebook?
I believe I am a fairly blessed person. I have a happy and healthy family and some very good friends. The kind of friends I […]
If You’re Not Having Sex, Is It Still Cheating?
Monica, I am divorced and have been very friendly with a married man. We get together for dinner and drinks. We have not had sex, […]
Dating Dilemma: “He Won’t Introduce Me to His Family”
Monica, I have been dating a guy for six months. We are both divorced with young kids. I have introduced him to my parents, my […]