Creative Wedding Ceremony Seating Ideas for Your Big Day

Make a statement and give your guests a great view.


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Ceremony seating in the round at the Logan hotel / Photograph by AGP Collective

You’ve likely attended many weddings that keep ceremony seating traditional, in rows facing forward with an aisle down the middle, particularly if they took place in a church. But if you’re saying “I do” outside, don’t have a wedding party or simply want to make a statement, why not change it up? Kristin Phalines of Kyle Michelle Weddings & Events shares her thoughts on a trio of alternatives, including the ones that offer the best views.

Runway

Viewpoint: Your guests will get a fab view of you as you walk down the aisle, but this seating style loses its practicality during the ceremony: Everyone is facing sideways, not toward the front.

Where it works: A narrow venue — like an estate with a long garden or Fitler Club’s courtyard — is best, with a smaller guest list and only two to three rows arranged on each side.

Lasting impression: “Is it practical? No,” says Phalines. “Grandma will hate it. But it is cool-looking.”

In the Round

Viewpoint: If you don’t have a bridal party or they’re seated, this can be a nice approach. Your guests have more opportunity to see you because they surround you. “It’s more intimate.”

Where it works: Somewhere open, like a beach, is ideal, because this creates intimacy where it doesn’t exist. You’ll want a squarer space and a larger guest count to form the full circle.

Lasting impression: “I love in-the-rounds,” says Phalines. “They work well for Jewish ceremonies that have a big chuppah, with the bridal party seated.”

Serpentine

Viewpoint: This option gives the bride more of a moment, since it forms a longer aisle. Flowers will help it make sense: “The chairs will zigzag among the flowers.”

Where it works: You’ll need an outdoor setting where you can design an aisle. A smaller guest count is ideal: Your serpent will look “blobby” with too many people.

Lasting impression: You’ll need to have the budget for lots of flowers to pull off a meandering aisle, though many couples repurpose these florals at the reception.

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Published as “Expert Advice” in the Winter/Spring 2024 issue of Philadelphia Wedding.